RSVP memberships for men

A range of memberships designed with men in mind

We know you value confidentiality and anonymity. We know you don't want to spend half your life just trying to get the date; you want it to be convenient. We know you value the opportunity to meet many single women. We know you want value for money.

We've learned a lot in our 15 years of operation. That's how we've designed a range of memberships very much with men in mind.

City Girl

Gold Membership

One-to-one introductions at your request
Your profile will also be matched with ladies whose criteria tie in with yours
Total confidentiality: your surname is never revealed; your phone number is only released with your permission
Because we meet everyone, our profiles are 100% accurate and fib-free
So convenient: no emailing backwards and forwards; we do all that for you
Freeze and reactivate your membership whenever you like
Quarterly full-colour calendar and newsletter
All the benefits of Neon Membership (see below)
Pay the lifetime registration fee in instalments if you prefer (subject to status; a credit charge applies)

Platinum Membership

One-to-one introductions, carefully selected by your own dating PA, who you will meet at interview
Your dating PA cherry-picks new members as they join for introducing to you
Your dating PA 'sells' you to potential introductions before you pick up the phone. So you do less but meet more people.
Guaranteed access to exclusive 'by invitation only' events
Preferential booking for events
Optional introductory session with our image coach or personal coach to get you at your best for membership
All the benefits of Gold Membership, including total confidentiality and lifetime membership

Platinum Plus Membership

All the benefits of Platinum Membership, but the dating PA service is provided by Chief Matchmaker and MD, Anne
Platinum Plus memberships are limited to 10 active at any one time, so you'll be a member of a very exclusive club

Neon Membership

So convenient: participate as much or as little as you like
Meet a large number of single people in relaxed surroundings
Events are designed specifically to maximise opportunities to meet like-minded single people
Events for every taste: from the adrenalin-fuelled to the laid back. Our client adviser will show you the calendar when we meet.
Low lifetime registration fee
Low monthly fee
Freeze and reactivate your membership whenever you like
Quarterly full-colour calendar and newsletter

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Want to know what it's like being a member? Click to view Rory's experience. (Opens pdf in new window).

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